Seismic+Society

=== CUT MY HAIR SHORT This happen long time ago, when I was teenager and wanted to keep myself in fashion I really wanted to cut my hair short.I asked my father for permission and of course was like __talking to a brick wall.__ For a week or two I was insisting until one day he called me to the living room and explain to me that the only reason was because he preferred girls with long hair as a family tradition, it was difficult for me to accepted at that moment, but now as an adult I finally understand the reason that my father gave me. Now I try to keep the same tradition with my girls and now they __drive me crazy__ because now they want to be in fashion, and I want to continue the family tradition. Romantic, April 12, 2013. My Kids ===

In the morning I talk with my Kids about the safety in the street, is really important this point because in the street there is many dangerous.for example: When somebody don't pay attention when drive and don't see the traffic signal ,that's what I said to my kids. Its was a good conversation for my children because they learned anything important in your life, and for me I was practicing more English, my kids all the time correctly me who I to do better the pronunciation, is really fun practice with their because They don't like what your mom talk in English.

When I was sixteen years old I had very long hair and I wanted to cut my hair because I wanted to try different style, but my mother didn’t agree with that one day I went to the salon and cut my hair, and when I went to the home she could not accept that and she screamed and hit me. Cute

__Mom, please let me go!__ When I was 12 years old, my hometown didn't have any swimming pool. I even didn't have a bathing suit. Summer time, a lot of my same age boys went to a river to swim and got cooler and fun. Sometime they hoped I can go with them. I asked my mom: “Can I go with them?” My mother always said: “Definitely not!” Why? Mom never answered me. I was mad. Have a once, I tried to go to the river. I wore a short and didn't go so far in the river. But I felt a little bit scared very soon. Because the river didn't have beach, it became very deep suddenly. I even didn't know how to swim. I almost didn't know how to survive. Couple days later, I even heard a boy got drowned. After that, I never asked my mom go to swim again. She is right! But she need some reason to explain to me. Maybe she just took me to try. That way is so easy to make me understand. Shiny April 12, 2013

Parents are always right Yes, when I was studying in College, I had to get permission of my parents for college trip with my friends. My parents did not allow me because it was two night stay in Hilly areas. I tried my best to convince them but failed. __It’s like talking to a brick wall.__ Actually, in those days blasts and kidnapping were common in my Country. But now I have realized that my parent’s decision was right because they care and love me so much. Marvelous April 12, 2013.

We must hear our parent’s dissent When I went to interview for collage, my father didn’t come with me. Because he’s lag was very pain. But I went with my aunty and attended that interview. I was select. 300 students’ attended that interview, but only 15 students had selected. I was proud. But my father didn’t give permission that collage. Because that time was wore place there. Father said fast safety us. I was very sad. But my father took dissents good. Jazzy Ap/17/2013

**__Result of not hearing the parents__**

When I was in grade four I asked parents to go for watching district level match that was held at another place and was far from my house. Both my parents suggested me for not going there only with my friends. I asked many times but they didn't give me permission. They told me the situations when I went alone by walking in that place. There was a small river had to cross to go there and they also talked about that. After an hour my one of the friend came to my house to call me and to go there. I was again excited and started to ask for that. Eventually my father gave permission to go with my friend and I went. On the way, I fell down and injured in my leg but nobody was there to treat me. I came back to my house with my injured leg. My parents did treatment and again suggested me not to be a greedy. From that time I always listen to my parents and elder. Super //__12 April,2013__//

//__We__// //__ should obey our Parent’s decision.__// When I was in High School, my school was going for a trip in another City. That city, we were going to visit called city of saints. And there are some beautiful green parks to see. But when I ask to my parents they didn't give me permission. Because they said, that city is far from our city. I asked my parents twice but they weren't agreeing with me. At last I accepted their decision. But after holiday, when I went back to my school. I heard trip was canceled because of principal’s ordered. So I was happy. Intelligent. April 12, 2013.

That is the same happened for me when I was in high school. Has high school in back home just to girls I was in it. I asked my parent to sleep in friend for a night and my friend has two sisters no brother just his father was safety and they said to me no because nobody sleep out especially girls just when she married and she had a husband only. That hard to change the rules they born with it and they stay with it her in Canada. The life in Canada is so different one hundred present. I see girls and boys go any place they want to go that mean’s freedom in this world. April 12, 2013 Mellow

[|htp://www.nfb.ca/film/antagonia-en] ANTAGONIA This link is about two Cartoons. They are looking their shadow and they want to catch their shadow. They don’t know it’s only their shadow. It’s like an ice ocean or sea where they are trying to catch their shadow. At last they know it’s only a shadow. Intelligent. April 12, 2013.

This film is telling a story about a little raccoon. He is a baby. He is searching his new world by walking between the herbs in the woodland. He moves from his home out to see the animals, people, and sun. He looked at a rabbit in his eyes and started to run to catch it but he couldn't The man in the woodland put the raccoon in his lunch box to bring him to his son at home but the raccoon tried to get out of the box and he did. April 12, 2013 Mellow [|http://www.nfb.ca/film/adventures#temp-share-panel]

__Summary of short documentary__ This is a documentary of group of some disabled families. Helen Spurred and Mike Spurred family and Gail St. Croix and Roger Flower family are really very good families. Helen is a very kind and a good person. The wife of Helen is Mike Spurrell is physically disabled and she used wheel chair to move here and there because she has a genetically disease of bone that’s why she can’t move with her legs and even to sit. Her husband, the Helen Spurrell helps her in every step of her life and love too. Similarly the Gail St. Croix and Roger Flower family is also very happy family even though having their disabilities. Super April 12, 2013

Film Name: Act of dishonor This film is about the north region of Afghanistan. This film tells the story of a young girl who falls in love with an Afghan-Canadian translator. This film is against injustice and show the spirit of people who have survived ten years of war.In this film East and West, love and respect, modernity and custom dispute result in to tragedy. [] Marvelous April 12, 2013.

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April 12, 2013. The film is about a father teaching his child about how different kinds of animals live in the countryside, and how they can survive for example racoon, mouse, eagle, rabbit, iguana, and more different types of animals. The father and his son look how the racoon is running around, the baby ask the father for the name of the racoon and the father put a name called Peter. The baby asked the father if the Peter racoon can live with them and the father grabs the racoon and puts it in the box and ties it in a box but the racoon escapes and runs out. Cute

AT HOME WITH MRS HEN This film is about the things that a mom has **__to put up with__**. To teach to our kids proper manners, we always have to keep calm and __let it go,__ and try to keep our frustrations away no matter __what the circumstances are__ that kids give to parents every single day. Romantic, April 12, 2013. [|http://www.nfb.ca/film/at-home-with-mrs-hen#temp-share-panel]

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The Magic of Anansi.

Family and Relationship I want to talk about relationship in my country. You hard hear the divorce because they get married to susceptibility together all the life. They leave in good and bad life, fitting, saying bad word to each other’s but they make up and leave together .They making big family ex; lots brothers ,sisters in same family and they married them cousin ,friends, neighborhoods ,relations .That can’t find any devours in family just little .they leave and disgust everything in home, in work. The low gives to them live together without devours with kids. Wednesday, April 10th, 2013 Mellow

FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIPS Family is LOVE and a good relationship starts when we care for each other. Always we have to keep in mind that the respect for each other starts at home and from there it is the way we show our manners to our community. A good relationship starts too with the communication that we have with the members of our family that is the key to keep our family in harmony. Romantic, April 11 2013.

A GOOD RELATIONSHIP We talk about a relationship when there is a relation between two people. How does it work? To have a good relationship, it's easy and simple if you only use these three words: Respect, comprehension, communication. Respect: Worth each other in a relationship. Comprehension: Will help you to understand your partner because both of you should be understanding people. Communication: It is the most important thing in a relationship because you have to communicate with your partner, do your best, try to be his or her friend as best you can. You will be adept to each other in the relationship. Those words will tide you over to have a good relationship and their consequences are peaceful and love forever By Seismic

Family and Relationship There are many kinds of relationships in (the) world such as friendship and social relationship. Each person has limited ability to live by him or herself. This inability of human beings develops a relationship between everyone. Family relationship affects the growth and future of a person. I have a very good relation with my parents because they always help me in every field of life. Similarly, I have always tried to develop best relationship with my husband. The best communication and understanding will result into a good relationship. Compromise is another important thing to maintain our relationship with others. I want good relationship with my family and friends. Marvelous April 10, 2013

Good job, Marvelous! Keep it up! Young April 10, 2013.

FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIP Family is a group of persons living together sharing their happiness and sadness. There are two types of families; small family and joint family. In small family, there are usually parents and single or two children. Whereas in joint family, there are grandparents, parents, uncle, cousin brothers and sisters. Family members in a joint family are more than a simple family. Now, the relationship of family members is full of love. They love each other. They help each other. They work together for the success of each and every family member. They feel the problem of single family member as the problem of whole family and solve together .They share their happiness and their problems with each other. So that, in the society, the family will be a good family. On other hand if there is some misunderstandings, misbehaves and not passion with each other that family is not good family and there is conflict between them. Super Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Family and relationships I would like to talk about good relationships. I think good families are good relations. A Family means a group of persons living together, like a growing tree. All family is based on father and mother. Every family and every person must understand anther Person, do every person’s live smooth and happy. Those are healthy relations. Some families are big group of family, that is continue generation. So this family is help full for everybody, happiness, very strong family. Some families are single of family. This family life style is diferent then anther families. Jazzy April/10/2013

Fantastic paragraph, Super, April 10, 2013 Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Hi, Jazzy! I completely agree with your thoughts. But, please, pay attention to spell any words like li__f__e, "an__o__ther", "di__ff__erent", "helpful" is one word. I'd like to change "happiness" to "happy", " Some families are big group of family, that is continue generation" to "Some families are big groups of families, that are continuing generation". Also, I allowed myself to put something into and if you delete something from <> it would be better. See you! Young April 10, 2013.

Thankyou Young for you advice .I must change my corriection. Jazzy April 20, 2013

Family and relationship

The family is the foundation of society, parents have a great influence on children‘s behavior and this behavior is learned with the family. Family life education is an effective means to that time and effort should be devoted. For good time in the family they are should be the presence of love and authority participatory, positive treatment, and of course time of family rela

Speaking about family (is) not easy. (The) word  family is (well) known (to) us, but talking about it is very difficult. What means  (a) family? The family means a basic social unit consisting of parents and their Children. This small society is very important, because we need  good world for  good life. For this reason, first, we must have good family such good parents and good children. ‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍Now, in this part, ideal relationship can  benefit (to) parents and children with modern relations.‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍ As always, good family (is, does, keeps or any other verb) good world.
 * FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIP **
 * Elegant **
 * April 10, 2013 **

**__Good Relationships Start with Respect__**

====How can people make a good relationship? I always find somebody who is very good at public relationships and somebody who is very bad at it. It seems that everybody loves or hates him(her) What's the problem? I thought about it many times. Today, I find the word “Respect”. Yes, it is. We always find that two people that don't know each other very well, get together easily. Because they respect each other easily, maybe just from first image,attitude and couple words. If people know each other very well, they are hard to respect. People fight not only about benefit, but also respect. That's why family people easy fight. What a respect mean? Why do we need respect? We need something for feeling, sense, spirit. So, it's important thing we should know that hurt somebody's heart worse than hurting body. If you want good relationship, remember: Respect! Respect everybody, everything, even a little animal. “The circle of life.” It's a famous song in Lion King. The king taught Sinba it is too. Now, it is our lesson.====

**__ Shiny April 10, 2013__**
**My motto is – don’t force it!** Perfect relationships take constant work. They don’t arise from nowhere just because you are a good guy or girl. If you are attentive you will always be able to recognize any wishes, even thoughts of your partner. You can do your best for good relationships. However be alert, watch what kinds of your actions are valued by your partner. Don’t force too much. Don’t let anybody step on your toes, if it’s not your choice. On the other hand let your partner know your spirits and wishes. Let him be helpful, fun and so on and show him your recognition of his actions. By Young, April 10, 2013 ** Why I never listened to my mother? **   This unpleasantly reminds me of the cases that actually were my mistakes, made despite the fact I was warned by my parents. On another hand, like my husband says, “He who doesn’t know evil, doesn’t know good”. My parents are very liberal. My father said, “One should indulge children, only then can they grow to be perfect robbers”. They don’t prevent my actions, but they were able not to scold me when I did something bad. So, I grew up independent and bold. By Young, April 12, 2013

CUT MY HAIR SHORT

This happen long time ago, when I was teenager and wanted to keep myself in fashion I really wanted to cut my hair short.I asked my father for permission and of course was like __talking to a brick wall.__ For a week or two I was insisting until one day he called me to the living room and explain to me that the only reason was because he preferred girls with long hair as a family tradition, it was difficult for me to accepted at that moment, but now as an adult I finally understand the reason that my father gave me. Now I try to keep the same tradition with my girls and now they __drive me crazy__ because now they want to be in fashion, and I want to continue the family tradition. Romantic, April 12, 2013.

_ __WORRY FOR MY NEIGHBOUR__

My neighbour is very nice. She’s very friendly. She is from Australia. Her name is Madeleine. Every day she is sitting on a chair, outside in the front of her house. She always is smoking and drinking something. Maybe, she’s in the 70 years. When I go out my home, or when I arrive at home, sometimes I talk with her for a few minutes, or simply I say her hello or bye. Two days ago, I didn’t see her and today, before going to my English classes, I saw her husband and I was talking with him about his wife. He’s sad and very worry because, She fell down for the stairs and she’s in the hospital. The doctor is going to do her a surgery in her hip and I told her husband that, I’m going to visit her today.

Marvelous2 August 21, 2013.

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When I was sixteen years old I had very long hair and I wanted to cut my hair because I wanted to try different style, but my mother didn’t agree with that one day I went to the salon and cut my hair, and when I went to the home she could not accept that and she screamed and hit me. Cute

__Mom, please let me go!__ When I was 12 years old, my hometown didn't have any swimming pool. I even didn't have a bathing suit. Summer time, a lot of my same age boys went to a river to swim and got cooler and fun. Sometime they hoped I can go with them. I asked my mom: “Can I go with them?” My mother always said: “Definitely not!” Why? Mom never answered me. I was mad. Have a once, I tried to go to the river. I wore a short and didn't go so far in the river. But I felt a little bit scared very soon. Because the river didn't have beach, it became very deep suddenly. I even didn't know how to swim. I almost didn't know how to survive. Couple days later, I even heard a boy got drowned. After that, I never asked my mom go to swim again. She is right! But she need some reason to explain to me. Maybe she just took me to try. That way is so easy to make me understand. Shiny April 12, 2013

Parents are always right Yes, when I was studying in College, I had to get permission of my parents for college trip with my friends. My parents did not allow me because it was two night stay in Hilly areas. I tried my best to convince them but failed. __It’s like talking to a brick wall.__ Actually, in those days blasts and kidnapping were common in my Country. But now I have realized that my parent’s decision was right because they care and love me so much. Marvelous April 12, 2013.

We must hear our parent’s dissent When I went to interview for collage, my father didn’t come with me. Because he’s lag was very pain. But I went with my aunty and attended that interview. I was select. 300 students’ attended that interview, but only 15 students had selected. I was proud. But my father didn’t give permission that collage. Because that time was wore place there. Father said fast safety us. I was very sad. But my father took dissents good. Jazzy Ap/17/2013

**__Result of not hearing the parents__**

When I was in grade four I asked parents to go for watching district level match that was held at another place and was far from my house. Both my parents suggested me for not going there only with my friends. I asked many times but they didn't give me permission. They told me the situations when I went alone by walking in that place. There was a small river had to cross to go there and they also talked about that. After an hour my one of the friend came to my house to call me and to go there. I was again excited and started to ask for that. Eventually my father gave permission to go with my friend and I went. On the way, I fell down and injured in my leg but nobody was there to treat me. I came back to my house with my injured leg. My parents did treatment and again suggested me not to be a greedy. From that time I always listen to my parents and elder. Super //__12 April,2013__//

//__We__// //__ should obey our Parent’s decision.__// When I was in High School, my school was going for a trip in another City. That city, we were going to visit called city of saints. And there are some beautiful green parks to see. But when I ask to my parents they didn't give me permission. Because they said, that city is far from our city. I asked my parents twice but they weren't agreeing with me. At last I accepted their decision. But after holiday, when I went back to my school. I heard trip was canceled because of principal’s ordered. So I was happy. Intelligent. April 12, 2013.

That is the same happened for me when I was in high school. Has high school in back home just to girls I was in it. I asked my parent to sleep in friend for a night and my friend has two sisters no brother just his father was safety and they said to me no because nobody sleep out especially girls just when she married and she had a husband only. That hard to change the rules they born with it and they stay with it her in Canada. The life in Canada is so different one hundred present. I see girls and boys go any place they want to go that mean’s freedom in this world. April 12, 2013 Mellow

[|htp://www.nfb.ca/film/antagonia-en] ANTAGONIA This link is about two Cartoons. They are looking their shadow and they want to catch their shadow. They don’t know it’s only their shadow. It’s like an ice ocean or sea where they are trying to catch their shadow. At last they know it’s only a shadow. Intelligent. April 12, 2013.

This film is telling a story about a little raccoon. He is a baby. He is searching his new world by walking between the herbs in the woodland. He moves from his home out to see the animals, people, and sun. He looked at a rabbit in his eyes and started to run to catch it but he couldn't The man in the woodland put the raccoon in his lunch box to bring him to his son at home but the raccoon tried to get out of the box and he did. April 12, 2013 Mellow [|http://www.nfb.ca/film/adventures#temp-share-panel]

__Summary of short documentary__ This is a documentary of group of some disabled families. Helen Spurred and Mike Spurred family and Gail St. Croix and Roger Flower family are really very good families. Helen is a very kind and a good person. The wife of Helen is Mike Spurrell is physically disabled and she used wheel chair to move here and there because she has a genetically disease of bone that’s why she can’t move with her legs and even to sit. Her husband, the Helen Spurrell helps her in every step of her life and love too. Similarly the Gail St. Croix and Roger Flower family is also very happy family even though having their disabilities. Super April 12, 2013

Film Name: Act of dishonor This film is about the north region of Afghanistan. This film tells the story of a young girl who falls in love with an Afghan-Canadian translator. This film is against injustice and show the spirit of people who have survived ten years of war.In this film East and West, love and respect, modernity and custom dispute result in to tragedy. [] Marvelous April 12, 2013.

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April 12, 2013. The film is about a father teaching his child about how different kinds of animals live in the countryside, and how they can survive for example racoon, mouse, eagle, rabbit, iguana, and more different types of animals. The father and his son look how the racoon is running around, the baby ask the father for the name of the racoon and the father put a name called Peter. The baby asked the father if the Peter racoon can live with them and the father grabs the racoon and puts it in the box and ties it in a box but the racoon escapes and runs out. Cute

AT HOME WITH MRS HEN This film is about the things that a mom has **__to put up with__**. To teach to our kids proper manners, we always have to keep calm and __let it go,__ and try to keep our frustrations away no matter __what the circumstances are__ that kids give to parents every single day. Romantic, April 12, 2013. [|http://www.nfb.ca/film/at-home-with-mrs-hen#temp-share-panel]

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The Magic of Anansi.

Family and Relationship I want to talk about relationship in my country. You hard hear the divorce because they get married to susceptibility together all the life. They leave in good and bad life, fitting, saying bad word to each other’s but they make up and leave together .They making big family ex; lots brothers ,sisters in same family and they married them cousin ,friends, neighborhoods ,relations .That can’t find any devours in family just little .they leave and disgust everything in home, in work. The low gives to them live together without devours with kids. Wednesday, April 10th, 2013 Mellow

FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIPS Family is LOVE and a good relationship starts when we care for each other. Always we have to keep in mind that the respect for each other starts at home and from there it is the way we show our manners to our community. A good relationship starts too with the communication that we have with the members of our family that is the key to keep our family in harmony. Romantic, April 11 2013.

A GOOD RELATIONSHIP We talk about a relationship when there is a relation between two people. How does it work? To have a good relationship, it's easy and simple if you only use these three words: Respect, comprehension, communication. Respect: Worth each other in a relationship. Comprehension: Will help you to understand your partner because both of you should be understanding people. Communication: It is the most important thing in a relationship because you have to communicate with your partner, do your best, try to be his or her friend as best you can. You will be adept to each other in the relationship. Those words will tide you over to have a good relationship and their consequences are peaceful and love forever By Seismic

Family and Relationship There are many kinds of relationships in (the) world such as friendship and social relationship. Each person has limited ability to live by him or herself. This inability of human beings develops a relationship between everyone. Family relationship affects the growth and future of a person. I have a very good relation with my parents because they always help me in every field of life. Similarly, I have always tried to develop best relationship with my husband. The best communication and understanding will result into a good relationship. Compromise is another important thing to maintain our relationship with others. I want good relationship with my family and friends. Marvelous April 10, 2013

Good job, Marvelous! Keep it up! Young April 10, 2013.

FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIP Family is a group of persons living together sharing their happiness and sadness. There are two types of families; small family and joint family. In small family, there are usually parents and single or two children. Whereas in joint family, there are grandparents, parents, uncle, cousin brothers and sisters. Family members in a joint family are more than a simple family. Now, the relationship of family members is full of love. They love each other. They help each other. They work together for the success of each and every family member. They feel the problem of single family member as the problem of whole family and solve together .They share their happiness and their problems with each other. So that, in the society, the family will be a good family. On other hand if there is some misunderstandings, misbehaves and not passion with each other that family is not good family and there is conflict between them. Super Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Family and relationships I would like to talk about good relationships. I think good families are good relations. A Family means a group of persons living together, like a growing tree. All family is based on father and mother. Every family and every person must understand anther Person, do every person’s live smooth and happy. Those are healthy relations. Some families are big group of family, that is continue generation. So this family is help full for everybody, happiness, very strong family. Some families are single of family. This family life style is diferent then anther families. Jazzy April/10/2013

Fantastic paragraph, Super, April 10, 2013 Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Hi, Jazzy! I completely agree with your thoughts. But, please, pay attention to spell any words like li__f__e, "an__o__ther", "di__ff__erent", "helpful" is one word. I'd like to change "happiness" to "happy", " Some families are big group of family, that is continue generation" to "Some families are big groups of families, that are continuing generation". Also, I allowed myself to put something into and if you delete something from <> it would be better. See you! Young April 10, 2013.

Thankyou Young for you advice .I must change my corriection. Jazzy April 20, 2013

Family and relationship

The family is the foundation of society, parents have a great influence on children‘s behavior and this behavior is learned with the family. Family life education is an effective means to that time and effort should be devoted. For good time in the family they are should be the presence of love and authority participatory, positive treatment, and of course time of family rela

Speaking about family (is) not easy. (The) word  family is (well) known (to) us, but talking about it is very difficult. What means  (a) family? The family means a basic social unit consisting of parents and their Children. This small society is very important, because we need  good world for  good life. For this reason, first, we must have good family such good parents and good children. ‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍Now, in this part, ideal relationship can  benefit (to) parents and children with modern relations.‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍‍ As always, good family (is, does, keeps or any other verb) good world.
 * FAMILY AND RELATIONSHIP **
 * Elegant **
 * April 10, 2013 **

**__Good Relationships Start with Respect__**

====How can people make a good relationship? I always find somebody who is very good at public relationships and somebody who is very bad at it. It seems that everybody loves or hates him(her) What's the problem? I thought about it many times. Today, I find the word “Respect”. Yes, it is. We always find that two people that don't know each other very well, get together easily. Because they respect each other easily, maybe just from first image,attitude and couple words. If people know each other very well, they are hard to respect. People fight not only about benefit, but also respect. That's why family people easy fight. What a respect mean? Why do we need respect? We need something for feeling, sense, spirit. So, it's important thing we should know that hurt somebody's heart worse than hurting body. If you want good relationship, remember: Respect! Respect everybody, everything, even a little animal. “The circle of life.” It's a famous song in Lion King. The king taught Sinba it is too. Now, it is our lesson.====

**__ Shiny April 10, 2013__**
**My motto is – don’t force it!** Perfect relationships take constant work. They don’t arise from nowhere just because you are a good guy or girl. If you are attentive you will always be able to recognize any wishes, even thoughts of your partner. You can do your best for good relationships. However be alert, watch what kinds of your actions are valued by your partner. Don’t force too much. Don’t let anybody step on your toes, if it’s not your choice. On the other hand let your partner know your spirits and wishes. Let him be helpful, fun and so on and show him your recognition of his actions. By Young, April 10, 2013 ** Why I never listened to my mother? **   This unpleasantly reminds me of the cases that actually were my mistakes, made despite the fact I was warned by my parents. On another hand, like my husband says, “He who doesn’t know evil, doesn’t know good”. My parents are very liberal. My father said, “One should indulge children, only then can they grow to be perfect robbers”. They don’t prevent my actions, but they were able not to scold me when I did something bad. So, I grew up independent and bold. By Young, April 12, 2013